Girl I like say's that she is Confused?

By saying she is confused she is saying that she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but does not want to be anything more than friends. Especially if she is talking to her ex....don't waste your time. Would you want to have to worry all the time if she's talking to her ex, or if she will end up back with him, or cheat on you with him? Stay friends and find someone who is not confused and doesn't have so much baggage!